Getting motivated to exercise is always easy when you're planning it
for the future. That early morning workout at the gym on Monday is just
what you need to get back on track. You may even be excited about
it...right up until the alarm goes off and you actually have to follow
through. It's then you realize that all those things that motivated you a
few days ago are suddenly nowhere to be found.
So, why does exercise seem great until we actually have to do it?
If a lack of motivation is what's hampering you then maybe we need to
figure out just what motivation is. Is it a feeling? An action? Or a
little bit of both?
What Is Motivation?
Merriam-Webster's Collegiate Dictionary defines motivation
as "that which gives purpose and direction to behavior." By that
definition, we're looking for something to drive us to exercise,
something to get us moving. So where does that 'something' come from?
For some people, like athletes, it may come from the desire to compete
and to win. For others, it may come from a desire to be healthy or live
longer for their kids. For most, losing weight is often the goal. But
is that enough to motivate us? Judging from our obesity problems, that
would be a no.
The problem with motivation is that many of us believe it's
something that will come to us if we wait long enough...that someday
we'll wake up and finally want to exercise. Rather than believe in that
fantasy, maybe we'd all be better off by realizing that motivation is
something we create, not something we wait for.
Is it Possible to Get Excited About Exercise?
When do you get excited about exercise? For me, it's usually
right after I've made the decision to do it at some future time. Just
deciding
to exercise makes me feel good...almost like I've already done
something. The problem happens when it comes time to follow through and
my motivation has suddenly disappeared. If that sounds like you, maybe
it's time to focus your attention on what's important. Deciding to
exercise is important, but it's what you do to follow through that
really matters.
Redefining Motivation
I believe motivation comes from different places -- it's not
based on how we feel or even something we have to wait around for. It's
something we create for ourselves. Use the following elements to
create your own motivation, and you'll find that exercising will be
easier.
Goals
You already know that the first step in motivating yourself is
having something to work for. It doesn't matter whether that's a weight
loss goal or a goal to run a marathon -- anything that gives you reason
to exercise will work. And don't think you have to set only one goal.
You can set as many goals as you like, whenever you like. Set daily
goals (I'll walk for 20 minutes today), weekly goals (I'll get a minimum
of 3 workouts in), or even hourly goals (I'll get up every 45 minutes
and walk around the building). Always having something to work for, big
or small, is just one way to keep yourself going.
Preparation
Once you've decided to exercise, make it as easy as possible to
follow through. That means having what you need and getting it all
ready for your workouts -- pack your gym bag, prepare meals or snacks,
and plan out what you'll do that day. I've skipped plenty of morning
workouts because finding my running shoes turned out the be the
equivalent of finding the lost city of Atlantis. I now park them right
next to the bed, unlaced, so all I have to do is step into them and I'm
ready to go. Find ways you can be ready for your workout well before it
happens.
Discipline
Part of doing what we do each day has to do with routine and
habits. If you can make exercise a habit, you're that much closer to
making it easier to do. It helps to have a regular day and time you
workout so that, once that time comes, you know it's time to get busy.
You can also create a ritual around your workout to help you get ready.
For example, if you're a morning exerciser, take a few minutes to
stretch before you get started. Or, if it's cold, throw your clothes in
the dryer before putting them on. Find ways to make your workout just
another part of your life, like brushing your teeth.
Flexibility
Part of being able to stick to your routine is allowing some
leeway. You may plan on jogging 5 miles, but there will come a day when
you're too tired or you don't have the time. Most of us end up
skipping our workouts rather than coming up with something else to do.
Have a goal in mind, but be willing to change it if you find you're
tired that day or you have to work late. Always have a backup plan --
if you find you have to work late, see if you can fit in a quick walk at
lunch, or use your breaks for some stair walking. Everything counts!
Commitment
Being healthy isn't a decision you make once -- it's one you make
every day. Recommitting to your goals is necessary to keep yourself on
track. See if you can spend a few minutes each morning thinking or
writing about what you want to accomplish that day and how you'll do it.
Remind yourself of your goals and take some time to appreciate how far
you've come in reaching them. Write down your goals and stick them on
your desk or wall so you can see them. Do whatever you can to remind
yourself of your commitment to exercise.
Having Fun
All those words I've just used (preparation, discipline,
commitment) sound like the opposite of fun, don't they? If you're like
me, you sometimes get tired of being so mature all the time -- of all
the obligations and responsibilities you have. Exercise often sounds
like just another duty. We forget that moving our bodies can actually
be fun. Making time for unstructured, free-flowing movement can help
you lighten up a little. I highly recommend taking a stroll, jumping in
a big pile of leaves or challenging your loved on to a wrestling match.
Reward Yourself
For me, motivation happens almost instantly whenever I reward
myself. It might be something small, like a leisurely trip to the
bookstore, or something big, like a massage. Check out Spa Wish to purchase your own massage gift certificate -- but don't allow yourself to use it until you finish all of your workouts!
In thinking about it, I've found that what motivates me changes
from day to day -- what got me moving today may not do a darned thing
tomorrow. If that's true for you, that means digging deep to find that
thing -- that thought, feeling, goal, reward -- that gets you moving.
Make motivation easier by eliminating your excuses before they happen.
But, most of all, realize that this motivation thing gets easier with
practice. When you exercise consistently, you gradually fill your
motivational stores as you understand what makes you tick and what gets
you moving. The more you practice, the better you'll get. You'll
realize your actions are what generates that feeling you've been
searching for -- motivation.
Thanks for Reading............